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that you're creating work according to your interests

and talents, considering your financial choices, and tak­ ing steps-slowly and intelligently-toward investing,

it's time to put your specific plan on paper. . In doing this you need to stay flexible and sensitive to the Lord's leading. Your plan for freedom and purpose won't work unless and until you commit your work to Him. "Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1). I wasted many years asking God to get on board with

my plans, instead of working in the flow of His will. Take my word for it; it doesn't work. Now's the time to make a new commitment to the Lord­ or maybe your first commitment.

COMMIT IT

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that you're creating work according to your interests

and talents, considering your financial choices, and tak­

ing steps-slowly and intelligently-toward investing,

it's time to put your specific plan on paper. In doing this you need to stay flexible and sensitive to the Lord's leading. Your plan for freedom and purpose won't work unless and until you commit your work to Him. "Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1). I wasted many years asking God to

on board

my plans, instead of working in the flow of His will. Take my word for it; it doesn't work. Now's the time to make a new commitment to the Lord­ or maybe your first commitment.

COMMIT

TO THE

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Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door

Larry Burkett writes that one way to apply God's principles to

of my life to You and ask You to come in as my Savior and Lord.

our money matters is through "Financial Breathing"-exhaling

Take control of my life. Thank You for forgiving my sins and

bad habits and inhaling good principles. 13 He says that first of

giving me eternal me to be."

Make me the kind of person You want

all, we must daily acknowledge His ownership of our assets:

We're still working on that last part, and I'll continue learn­

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean

ing and growing my whole life. But you can hold on to the

on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowl­

promise that once you invite Christ into your life, using your

edge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

own words in your prayer, He promises to never leave you.

(Proverbs 3:5-6)

"God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you'" (Hebrews 13:5, NIV). It's settled-now and for eternity.

breathe in His goodness and wisdom. Just as parents know

be with Him forever. Walking with God on a daily basis is another story. You'll be tempted, tested,

Next, we must accept God's answers and direction and

frustrated, and you'll have days when

what's best for their children, God knows and does what's best for us:

obedience to Him is the last thing on your mind. It takes a daily decision to commit our lives and our work to the Lord and to in His ways, but the benefits are incomparable:

If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is heaven give what is good to those who ask Him!

How blessed is the man who does not walk in the coun­

(Matthew

11)

sel of the wicked, nor stand in the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers! But his delight is in the law of the

Commit your work to the One who knows you and loves

LoRD, and in His law he meditates day and night. He will

you more than anyone else. Don't be afraid; you're in strong and

be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which

capable hands.

yields its fruit in its season and its leaf does not wither; and in whatever he does, he prospers. (Psalm 1:1-3) Daily rewards for a daily decision!

How can you commit your w?rk to the Lord today? What are

Honestly, one of the hardest things to do is to truly commit

His plans for your life? By now, you're getting closer to your

our financial future to God. In How to Manage Your Money,

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Action Application

answers, aren't you?

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Truly our financial future to God is one of the hardest to do.

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WOMEN. TAKE CHARGE OF As you think about this, remember these commands from

the Lord:

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I would have been tempted to feel superior to my miserly church neighbor had I not for years also cheated God. Like the multitude, I would contribute only from my surplus. Even

"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where

when I finally got on board with giving

moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and

also known as tithing-it was far less than the 10 percent God

steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven,

suggested in the book of Malachi:

to

God financially­

where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal." (Matthew 6:19-20)

"From the days of your fathers you have turned aside from My Laws and have not obeyed them. Return to Me, and I will return to you," says the Lord ofAll. "But you say, 'How are we

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to

return?' Will a man rob God?

Yet you are robbing Me! But you say, 'How have we

I remember sitting in church one Easter as the elders were pass­

robbed You?' You have not given Me the tenth part of

ing around the offering plate. The woman sitting beside me only

what you receive and your gifts." (Malachi 3:7-8, NLV)

pretended to put money in the plate. She faked it, just went through the motions! At first I thought no one else saw it except

Ouch! At tax time, in reviewing my charitable giving, I

me, but then I realized God had seen it too. God watches all of

would think, "That's it? I could have sworn I gave more than that!"

it, and shouldn't He be the only One who matters?

Not until I started taking this much more seriously did I And He sat down opposite the treasury, and began

finally experience the joy and true wealth that God offers to

observing how the people were putting money into the

everyone who will step up to this plate when it comes to giving.

treasury; and many rich people were putting in large

I finally made the decision to give 10 percent out of my gross

sums. A poor widow came and put in two small copper

income, not my net income. This meant God got paid before

coins, which amount

Uncle Sam-and, most significantly, before me.

to

a cent. Calling His disciples to

Him, He said to them, "Truly I say to you, this poor widow put in more than all the contributors

At the time I made this decision, I was making a fairly sub­

the

stantial salary, and the number terrified me. So much for

treasury; for they all put in out of their surplus, but she,

standing firm on faith. To keep me on the straight and narrow,

out of her poverty, put in all she owned, all she had live on." (Mark 12:41-44)

I even set up a separate account for God and used it for all my

to

to

charitable giving.

Jesus said it: "Give and it will be given to you ... " I

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You may have heard the following story before, but I'll tell

"Be rich in good works, ready to give, willing to share,"

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The King will reply, "I tell you the truth, whatever

it again: Just like everyone I know who has made this deci­

you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine,

sion-yes, everyone-I was remarkably blessed by God. I actually had money left over after giving to God's work and

you did for me."

Then he will say to those on his left, "Depart from

paying my bills. I kept checking the account again and again to

me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared

make sure I hadn't missed anything. I was giving more than I

for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you

ever had, but I had more money left over. How was it possible?

gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me

Only through God. Remember Proven: "She extends her hand to

nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite

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the poor, and she stretches out her hands to the needy"

me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I

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(Proverbs 31:20). Not only was the Proverbs 31 woman provid­

was sick and in prison and you did not look after me."

ing for her family, she was contributing to her community. If you hope to be blessed in this world, you have to bless others. Jesus taught this principle:

(1 Timothy 6:18 NKJV)

They also will answer, "Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?" He will reply, "I tell you the truth, whatever you did

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you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheri­

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When you give to anyone, it's as if you're giving to Jesus

thing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something

Himself. That's the heart of giving financially to God. You may

to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I

be able to fool everyone else, but not Him. When the Israelites

needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you

wanted to know how they were dishonoring God, He told

looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit

them (through Malachi) that they were cheating Him out of

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Then the righteous will answer him, "Lord, when

stock to sacrifice on His altar while holding back their best

did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give

animals to receive top-dollar in the market (Malachi 1:7-8).

you something to drink? When did we see you a

Robbing God with your money deeply offends God, and it also

stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to

robs you of the blessings He wants to bring into your life. God wants our best, and He wants the best for us. Try it. I dare

visit you?"

you. No, forget about me; God dares you! He dares you to trust

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Him with your money and to honor Him this is tough, but this is one area where

your wealth. I know actually tells us to test

Him. Listen to His words (continuing in the book of Malachi):

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to-earth people. My best friends don't put up any pretense or pre­ tend to have all the answers, and that's so refreshing to me. God wants the same thing. He wants you to come before Him hon­ estly to deal with your past and to plan for your future.

"Bring the tenth part into the store-house, so that there

Plus, He already knows.

knows how you feel about life,

may be food in My house. Test Me in this," says the

relationships, and money. If you're frightened, God under­

Lord of AlL "See if I will not then open the windows of

stands. He isn't here to judge you but to

heaven and pour out good things for you until there is no more need." (Malachi 3:10, NLV)

So we can acknowledge this with David:

o LORD, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my Test Him in this! Give to the Lord and see if

doesn't give

back abundantly, beyond anything you might have expected or dreamed of for yourself Then keep giving, even when you're tested (and you will be-but you'll also be victorious if you don't give up on giving).

thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, 0 loRD. (Psalm 139:

NIV)

You cannot hide from God, so why try anymore? you certainly understand this with your

Honor the LORD from your wealth, and from the first of all your produce; so your barns will be filled with plenty, and your vats will overflow with new wine. (Proverbs 3:9-10)

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